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I’m in bed with a girl I started dating casually, she asks me about us having sex and how many woman I have had with. I tell her 0 and she gets excited that she is the first one. However, she tells me she is on her period and we’ll have to wait a few days. I tell her it’s fine.

the next week, we are in bed together, she is on top of me kissing me in bed saying things like “first time” asking if I am nervous. She then tells me she needs birth control pills from the mail, I tell her it’s ok whenever she’s ready. In fact, this was a regular basis. She would get into sexual positions with me acting out sex and make an excuse not to have after her bring up sex. Saying things like you should do it with “someone else special, then come back I won’t be mad”.

Finally, this happened again days later, and I told her to stop because it is really uncomfortable. Telling her it’s obviously not these excuses, so I kind of pushed her to tell me what it really was. Apparently she had a really personal issue down there. Saying she doesn’t want to be sexually active right now. I tell her it’s fine not knowing whether at first to believe her or it’s just another excuse.

I believe her sort of because she was texting a friend about it. Part of me wants to believe but after all the excuses I’m still on the fence about it. Honesty and communication is key in a relationship right? Is it because I still have my virginity? I feel that it really doesn’t make sense to bring it up continuously knowing that you can’t do it. Am I doing something wrong or am I paranoid?

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Posted : 10/01/2020 8:22 pm
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I’m in bed with a girl I started dating casually, she asks me about us having sex and how many woman I have had with. I tell her 0 and she gets excited that she is the first one. However, she tells me she is on her period and we’ll have to wait a few days. I tell her it’s fine.

the next week, we are in bed together, she is on top of me kissing me in bed saying things like “first time” asking if I am nervous. She then tells me she needs birth control pills from the mail, I tell her it’s ok whenever she’s ready. In fact, this was a regular basis. She would get into sexual positions with me acting out sex and make an excuse not to have after her bring up sex. Saying things like you should do it with “someone else special, then come back I won’t be mad”.

Finally, this happened again days later, and I told her to stop because it is really uncomfortable. Telling her it’s obviously not these excuses, so I kind of pushed her to tell me what it really was. Apparently she had a really personal issue down there. Saying she doesn’t want to be sexually active right now. I tell her it’s fine not knowing whether at first to believe her or it’s just another excuse.

I believe her sort of because she was texting a friend about it. Part of me wants to believe but after all the excuses I’m still on the fence about it. Honesty and communication is key in a relationship right? Is it because I still have my virginity? I feel that it really doesn’t make sense to bring it up continuously knowing that you can’t do it. Am I doing something wrong or am I paranoid?

girls needs a lot of care, if you are a virgin you might not be very experienced with that, just give her time to explore your body and it'll all come together. 

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Posted : 03/02/2020 1:43 pm
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